Can you help me? My wife of 6 years has brought up the 'cuckold' thing. She would like us to try it. I've always gotten excited when other men approach her, dance with her, touch her....but is this going too far? I told her that once she crawls into another man's bed, things will always be a little different. Am I wrong? thomas mertz1 at g mail
Yes, things are always different after that moment.
You sound most unusual in that your wife brings it up. It usually comes from the husband, from what I can tell.
There will be many frustrations, when she chooses men you don’t approve of, or keeps little details from you …
Sometimes it’s been VERY frustrating to me, when she doesn’t use a condom with a guy she doesn’t really know, after I thought we had a safety first agreement. She’s been lucky. On balance, I’m very happy. I can’t tell you yes or no. You have to decide what makes you happy.